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Welcome! Before launching into an extended explanation about my favorite pastime, an introduction is in probably in order. My Facebook profile is public and fairly complete if you want all the details, but here are a few of the highlights.
I was born in Raleigh, North Carolina. I grew up in Snow Hill, a town with a 1950s population of around a thousand and the county seat of Greene County. My siblings and I are all "boomers." My grandaunt Winnie was daughter to a circuit riding Methodist preacher. After his death she married into the LDS faith, and dutifully became obsessed with genealogy. Her sister shared this passion, and together they generated hundreds of pages of family records and research. My great-grandfather, Charles A Lasitter, was a land surveyor and later Greene County Register of Deeds. His son -- my grandfather -- was Mark Clinton Lasitter. He was also county surveyor after his father, but before that got a degree in Civil Engineering (Class of 1910) while attending the I received degrees in Political Science and Master of Public Affairs, both from NCSU, enlisted in the Army for Officer Candidate School and then served my only tour of duty with the 3rd Army Cavalry Regiment in Ft Bliss, TX. Returning to North Carolina, I started NC Direct Marketing (hence the NCDM domain name) married well, and moved far away so that my wife could persue the medical career of her dreams. In 2025 she retired, and we returned. | ||

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This Wikipedia section covers many of the usual motivations for interest in family research, but I would expand on a few. For billions of people in the world, knowing your tribal and family connections determines who you can marry and how high you can rise in life. Even without the advantage of literacy, societies track these relationships via elaborate oral traditions that go back many generations. If you are like my grandaunt Winnie, religion is the driving factor. Per the Mormonism Research Ministry : "Genealogy. Research of one’s family history. Names are gathered so that those already deceased can have temple rituals performed on their behalf." "The greatest responsibility in this world that God has laid upon us is to seek after our dead. Those saints who neglect it in behalf of their deceased relatives, do it at the peril of their own salvation." Maybe the most important family relationship issue for you is that you haven't turned 30 yet and are still living with or off of your parents. If you're afraid that you are seen as an Now then: Genealogy is learning -- about you and how you got here. It's about how the human race took a 300,000 year journey all around the world to get you where you are today. Your ancestors were part of a 30,000 generation trek that created 117,000,000,000 copies of themselves, of which over eight billion presently live. Google "why learn genealogy" and you'll be presented with all sorts of fine reasons. Most will be pretty general. I much prefer the specific revelations of a Death Certificate. In addition to dates and places for birth, death and usual residence, you can also learn a person's occupation and industry. You learn the immediate and contributing causes of death, whether an autopsy was performed, or if the body was embalmed or cremated and when the body was buried or removed for burial. It may be one of the few places to find the maiden name of the decedent's mother or wife (if married). And knowing whether a hereditary disease killed your relative could have important health implications for you! Death certificates also tell the story of which of your ancestors died by accident, suicide, homicide or undetermined causes. And with genealogy, you will discover that it's often always a matter of time. We may no longer die by being thrown from horseback, but then perhaps you have a relative killed in an accident when early automobiles had neither seat belts nor air bags. Modern psychiatric drugs have only been around a few decades, and it would likely surprise you to learn just how many lives ended / were ended by poisons, hanging, shotguns, rifles, pistols, blunt force trauma, sharp weapons, farming accidents and the like. Understanding how people lived is an important part of genealogy, as is understanding technologies of the time. Our ancestors didn't have modern lighters and fire starters, with white phosphorus "kitchen matches" not being invented and perfected until the early to mid 19th century. Factory workers making them were exposed to phosphorus fumes and developed "phossy jaw" or necrosis of the lower jaw which could then glow in the dark. Understanding important dates extends both to scientific developments as well as human affairs, like wars. Inventions like the steam engine, the telegraph, the telephone, the wireless, photography and motion pictures, the electric light, electrification, the assembly line and the automobile, aviation, space flight -- all these and more help to make sense of genealogy records and events. If you learn genealogy, you can't help but learn about the contagions and wars that pockmark human history. I learned that consumption and tuberculosis were the same thing, and that it claimed my great-grandfather, his wife, as well as their daughter that stayed home to care for them. Another great-grandfather died during |
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The rules you follow while gathering and evaluating genealogical facts must take precedence over the effort of just sticking names upon a wall. Enthusiasm alone will not lead you to accurate results. I started off with boxes of records compiled from family bibles thanks to the efforts of my grandaunt and her sister, and even with that head start and the benefit of an unusual name, I still managed to make rookie mistakes. But don't worry about it. Even if you go to
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For less than $20, I registered a great little program called My mclasitteriii is my Ancestry.com UserId, and if you already have an Ancestry account, clicking on that link should put you in touch with me. Ancestry does offer I give lots of money to Ancestry every year just for the convenience Ancestry represents, but with all the good free genealogy web sites out there, I don't recommend it for everyone. FamilySearch is completely free and a fantastic resource. The folks there (LDS Church) have constructed a ginormous tree where most of your ancestors are likely already included. Just search and link in your grandparents and "whoosh" ... your tree is basically done for you. This "family tree by committee" produces a result that is much more accurate than many of the family trees you see on Ancestry. It's both a great strength and a weakness of Ancestry that there can be thousands of family trees available for a person in question. People go to Ancestry because they want it "my way". And because of the advertising, of course. |
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You may not have noticed, but Ancestry is grading your efforts. Only you as the tree owner, or others you assign as "Editor" can see your tree grade but you should prepare yourself: There is no perfect "10" on Ancestry. I do, however, have one modest tree that has garnered the Gold Star and the associated "Elite" rating!![]() | ||